Thursday, February 27, 2014

Confession......

So, I have a confession to make....we got a letter from Kaitlin.....LAST WEEK..... and I found it............THIS MORNING!!!....sitting in the middle of a pile of "junk mail" on the couch.  ( Luckily, she didn't need anything right away. )

In my defense:

First, and foremost, we have a new mailman.  The old mailman ALWAYS separated the real mail from the junk mail and put it in the front.  I thought I had no reason to look beyond the first glossy flier.

Second, Kaitlin told me before she left not to expect a lot of snail mail from her.

Third, It came on Friday.  I wasn't expecting to hear ANYTHING yet.

The lessons I have learned:

I can no longer trust the mailman to separate my mail for me.  I will be much more thorough from here on out (Luckily I never throw the "junk mail" out in a pile. I always do it one piece at a time)

Maybe dumping mail on the couch isn't the best option :)

It's time to push for more thorough "job" cleaning. (That pile sat there UNTOUCHED for 6 whole days..ugh)

We also learned today that today is her P-day.  So hopefully we will get an email.....if not I will  look at every piece of mail that we receive :)

Love,
Chrystal

Wednesday, February 19, 2014

MTC






Well, emotions are running high here in the Rowland home. Our sweetheart, Kaitlin was set apart as a full-time missionary last night... it was the first time Emily seemed to more fully grasp that she was leaving soon. As the Stake President concluded the blessing, Emily was huddled in the corner crying her eyes out. And then the tears really started for everyone else as well. It was a tearful/happy event that we'll always remember.

Later that night, now that Kaitlin needed a 'companion' to be with her at all times, it was decide that the girls would all sleep with Mom :). Everyone felt a need to stay so close to Kaitlin and spend every moment with her, knowing, I'm sure, how much they would be missing her for the next 18 months. It seemed that little Emily wasn't able to find much comfort... she fell asleep sobbing, and woke up sobbing :(. Such a tender heart.

This morning we went out to eat breakfast as a family, at IHOP. Enjoyed by all... until JC coughed his breakfast all over the table :). .... "Don't eat that!"  Ha ha!

We then drove to the MTC and took pictures and played tag until the time came to drop her off at the curb. It was soooo hard to say goodbye, but we know she is in Good Hands, and will be so blessed and be such a blessing to those she meets in Florida!

The drive home was really quiet. Everyone was still reeling from the difficult good-bye. The once rambunctious kids were subdued, and the falling snow seemed to add to the melancholy mood. I know Kaitlin was anxious to get the good-bye's over with, and get on with things. Once she makes a decision she wants to carry it out. Waiting to get started was probably the hardest part for her.

We love you, Kaitlin!

More to come......